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Memorise: Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but
whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Hebrews 13:4
Read: Ephesians 4:14-15
14 That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried
about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness,
whereby they lie in wait to deceive; 15 But speaking the truth in love, may
grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ. Continue...
Message
It is one thing to choose the right partner in marriage; it is another
thing to choose the right approach to courtship. A wrong approach to courtship,
particularly Christian courtship, can have a negative impact on the right
choice. Therefore, believers that are in courtship must be Christian through
and through if they would eat the good of the land of marriage (Isaiah 1:19).
An important lesson for ladies to learn is that, a man is at his best in
courtship. He would call you by different pet names. He would tease you and
make you feel secure. These are the normal sweet words you should hear in
courtship. However, when the wedding ceremony is over, his hidden shortcomings
will be exposed because he can no longer hide them. The saying that “love is
blind” is true but marriage is the tool to open the eyes of the blind lover.
You will discover the real personality of a man or woman after the wedding
ceremony.
For courtship to be Christian in nature, the admonition in today’s Bible
reading must be our watchword. Courtship between two children of God must not
be handled childishly. It should be handled with maturity as expected of a
serious relationship. There are many false doctrines flying around and children
of God must beware of them. For example, some people believe that once you are
in courtship, you can begin to co-habit, doing all sorts of ungodly things
together. They call it “trial marriage”. This has no place in Christianity. It
is whore-mongering. More often than not, after these so-called brothers have
had their fill of the so-called sisters, they dump the sisters for those they
regard as “reserved and self-disciplined”. In the same vein, there are terrible
wolves in sheep’s clothing among some so-called sisters too. They try to make
unsuspecting naïve brothers get them pregnant and the result is what we call
shot-gun marriage. This is a marriage not properly prepared for. Christian
courtship must be characterised with sincere gestures. It involves sharing past
and present experiences with your would-be wife or husband. It should look beyond
the present to future aspirations. You should lay your future bare in the hands
of Jesus Christ. Though there may be sincere disagreements during courtship,
these are not strong enough reasons to break the courtship. However, if a
courtship is full of troubles that you are almost getting suffocated with
sinful or legalistic demands of your partner, you need to have a rethink of the
relationship. This situation calls for fresh prayer. You may have made a
mistake in the first place.
Prayer Point: Father, please guide our youths during Christian courtship;
let such relationships culminate in holy wedlock and a glorious marriage.
BIBLE IN ONE YEAR : ACTS 16:16-18:17 and SONG OF SOLOMON 4:9-5:1
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