Marriage is seen as an height in a relationship of those who are so
inclined. The best age to be married also varies depending on actually being in
a relationship, to the culture, ambition and the beliefs of the intended
couple. Whatever your reason for placing an age limit on a marriage union, here
is another view on this subject based on research. Enjoy!
Scientific data are there to support it so rule out the possibility this
is made to console lonely singles out there. Nicolas Wolfinger is a sociologist
at the University
of Utah and was able to
find interesting findings in his data analysis from the National Survey of
Family and Households. It is a known fact that people who married younger have
more tendency to get a divorce. To start with, people who are wed at 20 are
twice more likely to do this than those who are married at 25. Wolfinger made
an analogy in this study: having your high school sweetheart as your husband or
wife is exhilarating especially if you are still young. However, first love
also comes with insecurity, jealousy and fearful doubts in the future. Having
these negative traits with someone you live with under the same roof is the
perfect ingredient for divorce. It was found out that the likelihood to have a
divorce lessens by 11 percent until you reach the age of 32.
However, it does not mean that marrying beyond 32 is good either. Past
32, the chances for a couple to have their marriage not working out raises by 5
percent annually.
“The kinds of people who wait till their thirties to get married may be
the kinds of people who aren’t predisposed toward doing well in their
marriages,” Wolfinger said in his research. “Maybe some of the
thirty-somethings who would have made good spouses now feel perfectly
comfortable being single, or living with partners out of wedlock,” He added.
Nonetheless, these are general data and everyone has their unique case. You are
you.
Source:
Naija.com
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