Tips for Singles

It isn't the best practice when you try to be what you are not in order to woo your intended and hope to be yourself after the wedding. It is best to be yourself and be opened to change. Everyone appreciates sincere people. I have listed some tips for the singles after the quotes below...

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.” ― Bernard M. Baruch

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself.” ― Harvey Fierstein.  Continue...

Ø       Ask yourself some sincere questions like; who am I? Who do I need? What is my assignment in life? Make sure you understand your purpose in life; it helps you to know who you need

Ø       Open your eyes and make sure you are rightly positioned. When you spot your 'own' then go for it

Ø       If you want God's result but you don't want to do it God's way; It is witchcraft

Ø       Don't marry an unbeliever no matter what

Ø       Don't marry a canal believer. People who are ruled by their senses (Well, if you aren’t one yourself)

Ø       Don't marry based on physical appearance; while it is good to go for what you are attracted to and what pleases you real good, you don't make it the top on the list (those shapes and figures will soon disappear or become unsymmetrical with time)

Ø       Don't marry based on wealth or material possessions (Life is not defined by what you have, even when you have a lot - Luke 12:15b MSG; Money can sprout wings and fly away Proverbs 23:5 NLT)

Ø       Don't marry someone who is not ready to leave his/her parents and cleave to you

Ø       Do not marry whom you don't love (Love isn't a feeling but a choice. Whoever you can't love, you have no business marrying him/her. You don't marry out of pity). If you don't love your partner, he/she will irritate you when he/she wants to make love with you when you are married

Ø       Single brothers be bold enough to approach any sister you like, do not feel inadequate and should she say no, this will not reduce you in anyway but it will just be an opportunity for you to get it right the next time (even if the righteous falls seven times, he will rise again). Move on, don’t let this discourage you

Ø       Singles sisters please be sharp and know what you want and catch it when you have it within your reach. Don’t play coy when you see what you want. These days, another sharp sister may take your place (Fairy tales are not real life)

Ø       Do not ignore any challenges you are having in your relationship before you say I do. This is not to say you won't face some basic challenges which you should be able to work out

What are the things you detest in a man/woman? I will appreciate some comments on this.

Who then do you marry or how do you know who to marry? I will give some tips in my next write up for singles.