Terry
Harvey, from Cardiff ,
always wanted a lot of children because he was from a big family himself - but
his family said he never dreamed he would have so many.
After
meeting his wife Marie in 1979, the pair went on to have 12 girls and four
boys, as well as 33 grandchildren. There were five more on the way when Mr
Harvey died.
Mrs Harvey, to whom he
was married for 35 years, said she was 'heartbroken' at her husband's sudden
death.
A family spokesman said:
'Terry was a brilliant dad - he worked long hours but always helped to look
after the children getting up in the middle of the night to help when they were
young. Continue...
'He was always proud of supporting his large family despite many people advising him that he might be better off claiming benefits.
'He used to say: "I
didn't have my kids for the Government to support them - that's my job".'
Mr Harvey, one of seven children himself, used to say Marie was a supermum running one of the smoothest households in Britain from their five-bedroom home in Llanedeyrn, Cardiff.
Together they looked
after their children Machala ,
36, Leanne, 34, Tracey, 33, Samantha, 32, Christopher, 31, Colin, 29, Jodie,
28, Amy, 26, Kimberly, 25, Loretta, 23, Daniel, 22, Roxanne, 21, Shikera, 18
and Shane, 15.
One of their children,
Shiola, died when she was five days old. Jessica died before she was born.
After Shiola's death, Mr
Harvey had a reverse vasectomy operation so he could go on to have more
children.
Paying tribute to their
father, his children said Mr Harvey gave them good morals and a sense of hard
work.
His eldest daughter
Machala Evans said: 'Dad was a simple man, who loved his work and his family.
'He really was a family
man, who was very patient and relaxed with his children and grandchildren, but
he did ask for respect and the children knew that.
'He was a brilliant
grandfather - he probably knew the words to every Disney song! His
grandchildren are missing him so badly.'
During his career as a
steel worker, Mr Harvey helped build the Severn
Bridge , the Cardiff Bay
barrage and a new cancer unit at the University Hospital of Wales.
He also worked on the
police station in Cardiff Bay along with many of the other big developments in Cardiff .
His biggest job recently
was working on the incinerator waste facility in Splott.
Despite working long
hours, Mr Harvey always helped look after the children getting up in the middle
of the night to help when they were young.
Since his death, Mrs
Harvey and her children have taken comfort from the respect shown by Mr
Harvey's workmates who downed their tools after hearing he had died.
The family spokesman
said: 'Terry loved his job and was always cheerful while working he would even
get told off for singing too much.
'He had a great sense of
humour and delighted in teaching his African Grey parrot Mickey to swear.
'He loved spending time
at his caravan on the coast on the Gower coast where he would relax with Marie
and the children.
'His
grandchildren will remember him as a great playmate singing 'Under the Sea'
from the Little Mermaid to them the day before he died.'
Mr Harvey, who was born in 1958, died suddenly on September 16. Building sites acrossSouth Wales shut down for his funeral today
after he made a lifelong list of friends.
Mr Harvey, who was born in 1958, died suddenly on September 16. Building sites across
He was the fifth of
seven children and lived with his siblings Christine, Angela, Catherine, David,
Gareth and Susan.
When he finished school,
he trained as a steel fixer with his dad, who was also called Terry, but who
was known as Tecca.
Mr and Mrs Harvey met in
a working men's club in Cwmbran and got married in the registry office in Pontypool just eight weeks later in August 1979.
Mrs Harvey - who had
wanted to be a nun when she was growing up - organised family life like a
military operation and with enough food to feed a small army.
She used to say her
washing machine was on 'virtually all day every day' and the toughest part of
being a mum to so many was putting more than 200 socks into pairs every week.
She often cooks for up
to 30 people four times a week, when a selection of her children, their
partners and her grandchildren visit the home.
Mr Harvey loved spending
time at his caravan at Port Einon, where the family would relax by playing card
games, with him and Mrs Harvey 'cheating' to win all the sweets.
He was fond of animals
and adored his Great Dane Zana. His family said his grandchildren will remember
him as a great playmate singing 'Under the Sea' from the Little Mermaid to them
the day before he died.
Source: DailyMail
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