A shocking, albeit unverified, story has been making the rounds on
Chinese social media, highlighting concerns over the traditional practice of
paying a bride price.
It was a tale that resonated with many Chinese people. A local station
ran a story about a man who wanted to marry his pregnant girlfriend. But when
he wasn't able to afford a payment of more than £20,000 (about $30,000), the
woman's father put an end to any talk of a prospective wedding - and forced his
daughter to get an abortion.
The bride price is similar to a dowry, but paid from prospective groom to
the family of the bride, rather than from the bride to the groom's side of the
family. Manya Koetse , China expert and editor of What's on Weibo, says it's a
centuries-old tradition in the country that lived on through the communist era.
And Koetse, who initially spotted the
story of the man and his girlfriend making the rounds on Chinese social
networks, says the sums involved today are rising in step with China 's growing
economy.
"It was there in the 1950s, 60s, 70s... In that time the bride price
could be a thermos flask, or bedding," she says. "Later on it became
furniture, then a radio or a watch. When we come to the 1980s it could have
been a television or a refrigerator. And since China 's economy has been opening
up, that's when the bride price started changing into hard cash."
Economic prosperity is one reason for the rising bride price, but another
key factor is the shortage of women caused by China 's one-child policy.
A traditional preference for males who provide labour and traditionally
look after their parents in old age led to a huge increase in sex-selective
abortion and even neglect and infanticide of female babies.
Currently, according
to Harvard researchers, there are 118 men for every 100 women in China , and an
"extra" 40 million males in the country.
Consequently, in some areas the
bride price has skyrocketed, and the people who are most hurt by this are
men in rural areas.
"They're called 'bare branches'," says Koetse, "guys who
are very poor, aren't educated, they don't have a wife or children, so they're
like a tree without leaves. There are villages across China which are
full of men like this."
"They have double trouble actually," she says. "Women
leave these villages to move to bigger cities to find a man who can offer them
more than the guys in the village. And the few women who remain might have 20
men each who want to marry them, so they can ask for a high bride price."
The Harvard researchers say the gender imbalance could lead to higher
crime and social unrest among a "restless class of single men".
As for the reaction to the story about the man whose girlfriend was
forced to get an abortion, Koetse says the online reactions in China to the
local news were somewhat surprising, at least to Westerners. Many people
defending the father's actions and criticising the couple for getting involved
with each other without thinking of the implications. Others took a different
view and criticised the bride price tradition.
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