I am Scared of getting Married - Chinenye Uyanna

                                        

Nollywood actress, Chinenye Uyanna has joined those who said that t the high rate of divorce prevalent in the society is scaring young singles from taking a dive at the marriage institution due to fear of marital crisis and an eventual crash.

Nollywood actress, Chinenye Uyanna has joined those who said that t the high rate of divorce prevalent in the society is scaring young singles from taking a dive at the marriage institution due to fear of marital crisis and an eventual crash.

Nollywood actress, Chinenye Uyanna has joined those who said that t the high rate of divorce prevalent in the society is scaring young singles from taking a dive at the marriage institution due to fear of marital crisis and an eventual crash.

She said  “Yes, the rate of divorce is becoming rampant. If you ask me, I would say that people do not know the meaning of marriage. Some get married today because parents are putting pressure on them, some because their friends are married and others because of what people will say. So when you rush into things you will still rush out of it”, she mused.

 She added. “Due to this fact of divorce, some people are scared of getting married but I’m not. When you find the right person everything will work out. If I see the right person I will”, she said emphatically.

Whilst she has raised some important points, they are not enough to scare people away from marriage. At best they should better prepare us for that wonderful institution called marriage.

I would like to suggest that you should never marry because of the reasons Chinenye raised above. I would give additional reasons why we shouldn't get married in another post.

Life is too short to let fear make big decisions for you. It is not easy to overcome the fear of failure, but once you build up the confidence to not let fear hold you back you'll achieve much more. "What would life be if we had no courage to attempt anything?" Vincent van Gogh.

"Never be afraid to try something new. Remember, amateurs built the ark; professionals built the Titanic." Anonymous.

Please what advice do you have for her and others who may be nursing this fear.