Today I choose life. Every morning when I wake
up I can choose joy, happiness, negativity, pain... To feel the freedom that
comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices - today I choose
to feel life, not to deny my humanity but embrace it. - Kevyn Aucoin.
Here is a story I read that may interest you...
Michael is
the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has
something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he
would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!"
He was a
natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there
telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. Seeing
this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael and asked
him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How
do you do it?"
Michael
reply: "Each morning I wake up and say to myself: Mike, you have two
choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a
bad mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can
choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of
life. I point out the positive side of life."
"Yeah,
right, it's not that easy." I protested.
"Yes,
it is." Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away
all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to
situation. You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be in a good
mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life."
I reflected
on what Michael said. Soon thereafter, I left the Cell Tower
industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I heard that Michael was
involved in a serious accident, falling some 60 feet from a communication
tower.
After 18
hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Michael was released from the
hospital with rods placed in his back. I saw Michael about six months after the
accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied: "If I was any better,
I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds, but did
ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place. "The
first thing that went through my mind was the well being of my soon to be born
daughter" Michael replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered
that I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose to die. I
chose to live.
"Weren't
you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Michael continued,
" The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine.
But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of
the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he is a
dead man' I knew I needed to take action"
"What
did you do?" I asked.
"Well,
there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Michael.
"She asked if I was allergic to anything."
"Yes?"
I replied.
The doctors
and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply.
I took a
deep breath and yelled "Gravity".
Over the
laughter, I told them, "I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am
alive, not dead."
Michael
lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing
attitude.
I learned
from him that every day we have the choice to live fully.
Attitude
IS everything.
So then, do
not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Today has
enough trouble of its own."
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